Monday, May 29, 2017

SHEVOUS 2017

       As we prepare for the Yom Tov  of Shevous, permit me to share with you a most enlightening idea that was said by the Rav. It is a theme that it is so necessary in our day and age and should be shared with everyone especially on this Yom Tov commemorating the Revelation of G-D to Am Yisrael.
       The Rav, Rabbi Joseph B. Soloveitchik זצ׳ל spoke of our past galuyot, exiles,
which the Jewish people endured in Egypt and Persia and how our people were subjugated by threatening tyrants whose nefarious plans would have spelled the end of Jewish history.
          It is only from the vantage point of historical distance, as we Jews study the past, may we arrive at some appreciation of the enduring influences which these two exiles experiences have had upon the Jewish personality.
          After much involved philosophical, theological and Halachic discussion, the Rav suggested that there are two basic ingredients to a Judaic way of life, to Torah; Faith and Morality.  The Decalogue the Ten Commandments were, as we know, inscribed upon two Tablets of the Law.  The first five Commandments deal with acts of faith which relate man to his Maker, while the latter five prohibit anti-social acts, between man and his fellow man.
          The Torah introduces the Decalogue with the verse:And G-d spoke all these words saying",      Rashi notes that the verse would be entirely meaningful without the redundant word "all"  stating simply that G-d spoke these worlds saying..." He therefore explains, this teaches us that Hashem pronounced all these words in a single utterance, an impossibility for human beings.
          What is the significance of G-ds simultaneous utterance of the entire Decalogue?  It teaches us that all Ten Commandments constitute an indivisible organic unity.  We do not have ten commandments but one, with ten aspects.  The word all in this context does not mean all of them, which characterizes a numerical sum total of independent teachings, but rather a totality, an interdependent oneness of all its seeming parts.  Faith and morality are integrally one and inseparable.
          The Rav presented the following questions: Can a secular state nurture a moral society?  Can a culture which is indifferent to the transcendental imperative inspire ethical performance in private or public life?
          In past decades, secular humanists were certain that man could be induced and motivated to pursue ethical norms without the absolute imperative of the Divine.  Our thesis is that in the long run and for the masses of society, there can be no such thing.  Either man accepts the authority of G-d as the legislator of the moral norm, or he will eventually fail in all attempts to create a moral society, a relativistic man-made moral order will simply not endure. The inability of modern secularism to motivate ethical behavior in private or public life is evidence of this truth.
          The Verse: "When a person sins and commits a trespass against the Lord by dealing falsely with his neighbor", is homiletically interpreted by our sages as follows: He who commits a trespass against the Lord will eventually also deal falsely with his neighbor.  Morality without faith cannot sustain itself.
          An interesting Midrash supports this idea; Rabbi Reuven was asked by a philosopher of Tiberias: Who is the most hateful, morally dangerous person in the world? He replied, He who denies his creator, because the denial of all norms follows if one rejects G-d.  No man violates a law unless he first repudiates the legislative authority of the law.
          Rabbi Reuven felt that the non-believer constitutes a danger to the most fabric of society.  The philosopher was astonished by his answer because faith, after all, is the private affair of the individual and furthermore, are not many atheists teachers of morality?  The Rabbi insisted that eventually atheism leads to the demoralization of the individual and society.  Man can easily rationalize his crime, declare norms to be relative and proclaim himself the arbiter of right and wrong.  With most people, the baser part of their natures will tend to dominate.  Indeed, the moral bankruptcy of secularism is apparent to all students of our contemporary world.
          By declaring the indivisible unity of both tablets of the Decalogue, G-d declared that, without faith, morality cannot be sustained.
          It is equally true that there can be no faith, without loving kindness.  People who are ritualistically observant but ethically deficient destroy Judaism.  The self-righteousness and presumed piety are hypocritical.  Here too, G-ds combined utterance, proclaim the indivisibility of the entire Decalogue.
          In the final analysis said the Rav, authentic Judaism will prevail over secularists and deviationists only if it results in the superior value system of ethical behavior. G-d may be worshiped only if we first make peace with our fellow man.  There can be no Judaism without morality.
          Chag Sameach

Thursday, May 25, 2017

COMMENCEMENT

   I had the pleasure of attending the Yeshiva University graduation ceremony this week at Madison Square Garden.  My heart swelled with Nachas as our grandson, Yonatan Mehlman, was honored by being selected as the Valedictorian of Yeshiva University, class of 2017.   
   While I was listening to the different speakers, it was interesting to note that the word graduation was not used, but rather the word commencement, which I found to be most insightful. 
   For all the graduates, I sense, it is a commencement, as the word indicates.  It is truly a beginning and a start to greater achievements for future life endeavors. 
   I recall the words of Albert Einstein, "There are seven sins in the world: Wealth without work, Pleasure without conscience, Knowledge without character, Commerce without morality, Science without humanity, Worship without sacrifice and Politics without principle. I don't know what your destiny will be, but one thing I know: the only ones among you who will really be happy are those who will have sought and found how to serve. We think too much. We feel too little. More than machines, we need humanity."
    Einstein said it brilliantly and was right on target in expressing the needs of our country in these tumultuous and uncertain times which we, unfortunately, live in. These are times that we must put our trust in the hands of our young men and women who have great vision for a brighter future, encapsulating a life filled with optimism and feelings for a more united humanity under the rubric of a 
G-Dly ordained society. 
   Our Torah oriented way of life stresses two very important themes that can, hopefully, ensure a more positive future for every new graduate - they are Emunah and Emet, Truth and Faith. Where Emunah signifies the eternal and Emet the ephemeral, there is a need to unite the divine with the humane, and often, to unite the ancient with the modern, bringing about a world of compassion, truth and authenticity. 
   The qualifying statement of the Torah, תמים תהיה אם הי אלוקיך,'You must be wholehearted with G-D', teaches us to live a life in which we bring together Truth and Faith.  They are united with a strong belief in man's potential to recognize that we are of the world of each other and possess the power to achieve greatness in a world of peace and renewal. 
  As we begin reading ספר במדבר, let us realize that the מדבר experience that Hashem insisted upon was  not that we were to remain in a מדבר of desolation, but rather to use that ominous experience to transform the Jewish People into an Am Kadosh. To achieve this goal Hashem expects us to exhibit a greater sense of brotherly love and compassion for one another. 
  This was evident as we stood at Har Sinai to receive the Torah:  ויחן שם ישראל נגד ההר, כאיש אחד בלב אחד. Gloriously, at that awesome moment in Jewish History, we were one in heart and one in action. How Messianic this would be if we could achieve this goal in our day and age, thereby, writing a new chapter in Jewish History glorifying the Jewish People in an everlasting way.
   The graduates of today must understand that the future is in their hands and we are relying upon them to preserve it well.
   Congratulations to all our graduates.
                                                          שבת שלום ומבורך 

Thursday, May 18, 2017

YERUSHALAYIM OUR HOLY CITY

 
 
 
 שאלו שלום ירושלים  ישליו אהביך
“Pray for the peace of Jerusalem, those who love you will be serene” 
 
   And so it was that a number of years ago, Mimi and I had the opportunity to celebrate יום ירושלים in ירשלים. At that time the Synagogue where I was the Mora D’asra was privileged to donate an ambulance to Magen David Adom in Yerushalayim.  It is a day etched in my mind and heart forever.  There were no words to describe the gratitude expressed to us for this gesture. 
  We had the opportunity to walk the streets of Jerusalem and visit places we did not know existed.  We spoke with people who lived in this ancient holy city for decades. Many fought in wars to protect our Jewish State. We heard the anticipation in their voices awaiting the glorious celebrations for Yom Yerushalayim.  “You will have an experience you will always remember,” they told us.  They were right.  The word to describe it is Awesome. The singing and dancing in the streets and the dancing down to the Kotel was a sight to behold.  We ate at a celebratory dinner on Mt Scopus facing הר הבית. We all said in unison 
הר הבית בידינוWe Have Come Home!
   We waited a long time to hear those words and nobody is going to take it away.
   We give הודאה to הקב״ה for giving our soldiers the strength and the knowledge and the בטחון and the אמונה to destroy the enemy and recapture what Hashem gave to us. We Have Come Home!
   This year we celebrate the 50th Anniversary of the reunification of Jerusalem as a Golden Anniversary and we must hold dear to our sacred city and the history it brings to our glorious Jewish State.  
   Let us raise our voices in song  ירושלים של זהבאם אשכחך ירושלים תשכח ימיני.

   With these thoughts in mind, as we celebrate this most magnificent holiday, I recall the many Blessings that are recorded in this weeks’ Sedrah B'chukosai, specifically,  “והולך אתכם קוממיות לארצנו, I will lead you erect." Rashi comments that the Jew will walk and proceed in life with erect stature. In fact, the opening sentence reads, "אם בחוקותי תלכו, if you walk in my statues.״ It continues, אם מצוותי תשמרו, and keep my commandment, ועשיתם אותםand fulfill them.
Herein, we have three different expressions: תלכו, תשמרו,ועשיתם, walk, keep and do. What do these three different expressions imply and mean for our Judaic way of life. 
The Torah wants to show that to be a good observant Jew it takes one to act in a gradual process. 
Judaism encourages us to pursue a life of Torah, and to do so in the optimum way. One needs to start this magnificent journey with תלכו, walking slowly in the statutes of Halacha, Traveling step by step in our observances. Then we are led to the next level תשמרו, as we walk in the steps of Judaism, we need to do so with careful watching and dedication and commitment to the word of G-D. Then we enter the world of ועשיתם, we become scrupulous in the performance of Torah and Halacha. Now Judaism, with this process, becomes second nature. It becomes part of our life - a life that will always be with us and continues to grow stronger and with greater intensity as our performance becomes more internalized and cherished. 
This is our ירושלים. This is the life of a Jew as he becomes more appreciative of having been blessed by Hashem with our return, not only, to our Holy Land but, even more so, to be reunited with our עיר הקודש, our Holy City, the city where the presence of Hashem is felt and experienced. 
To achieve this feeling it takes a process and great patience. We must first walk into this state of קדושה, then we move to תשמרו, observing and imbibing into its Holiness, and finally using this great Bracha, to intensify our ועשיתם, our actions, leading to a dedicated and uplifting way of life.
 In this light we will be zoche to see the, ביאת גואל צדק במהרה בימינו ,  אמן .
                                               שבת שלום ומבורך

Many thanks to Mimi for her wonderful insight to this glorious day. 

Wednesday, May 10, 2017

SPINNERS OF LIFE

  The new fad these days is the ‘Fidget Spinner.’ It is supposed to reduce ‘stress.’ I was interested in getting one for myself as a tool for relaxation purposes. I did some research and found out how this fad got started.
   The inventor of this ubiquitous stress-reducing toy says she came up with the idea during a trip to Israel in the 1980s, during the First Intifada, as a way to distract the “young boys throwing rocks at police officers.” 
   Catherine Hettinger told CNN last week that she first brainstormed the gadget while visiting her sister in the Jewish State and hearing about the clashes between Palestinian youth and Israeli security.
   She first considered designing a “soft rock that kids could throw,” according to CNN.
“It started as a way of promoting peace,” Hettinger said.  Soon after, upon returning home to Orlando, Florida, Hettinger put together the first fidget spinner — a propeller-like toy that spins around a center bearing.
   Why this topic for my blog? At first I wasn’t quite sure. Then I realized that this ‘Fidget Spinner’ is an excellent tool for everyone, no matter what age. It is a means to calm our nerves and to bring relaxation to our minds during the laborious days activity in a world filled with stress. 
   Sounds like a good idea!  However, the question I pose, “Would there be some spiritual benefit to this spinner in life?” 
   If we are really interested in some reducing factor to lower our stress level, then it is necessary for us to find the means to do so within our religious life. To begin with, we need to identify concrete ways that we can improve our outlook on life in a positive and comforting way with deep introspection, identifying our true potential and the nature of the unique task for which G-D brought us into this world. This is only the beginning, but it’s a start. 
   If we can respond, in a positive way, to the question which Hashem posed to Adam, “Ayecha? Where are you in life?” Then we are on the road to a stress reducing experience in life.  To know ones’ self, is to know where we belong and, more so, to know how we fit into our world, rather than always comparing ourselves to others. 
   How often have we said to our children, “Be yourself, be who you are and do not look to others for comparison.” As adults we need to hear this selfsame message, “You are who you are and make the most and the best of it.” 
   Chazal teaches, “Before we are created, G-D has a clear image of who we can be and what our mission in life is. Our task is to seek out that image by the way we live.  In doing so, in a positive way, we will achieve the Image that Hashem originally had for us and this accomplishment can, successfully, reduce our life’s tension, and thereby become our ‘true spinner’.
   For many years I was a School Psychologist. As time progressed, I began to realize more and more that parents and teachers are Mashpi’im. They are the ones that influence our children. 
   To, truly, be an influential force is to recognize that whatever we do, whatever we say, flows down from us to our children and leaves a great ‘Roshem’, influence, in their lives. Hopefully, with a thought out process, that influence will be a positive one, resulting in a greater sense of self-esteem, removing the many stresses that overpower so many of us.
This weeks’ Sedrah, Emor concludes with an enigmatic narrative. The Torah relates of a young man from a mixed marriage who becomes a blasphemer, cursing the name of G-D in public. Many inquired what caused this young man to act in such an abhorrent fashion. Considering the theme of my blog, may I suggest that he was influenced by his own action described by the words ויצא, “He went out.” 
   Chazal ask, “מהיכן יצא from where did he leave?” One of the answers given, “יצא מעולמו, he left his world.”  He left his environment. He refused to stay or accept the world to which he was born. He left his family circle. Too often we see many of our youth running away from their family environment, in search of their true self image.  Unfortunately, many end up with a distorted self image, in places where they do not belong and suffer alienation from the true image that Hashem proposed for them to follow in life’s destiny.
   The dire crisis that we are experiencing today  is that so many are on the run, looking for fulfillment, looking for recognition, looking for acceptance, but, sorrowfully, looking for it where it really doesn't count and where we are unlikely to be accepted. 
  We think if we break away from our real environment, a world which we think is confining, and a world away from our family, we will finally find our true selves. How quickly we realize how wrong we are. Those greener pastures that we thought we see, are really weeds that are strangling our very essence and our true self image and causing even more stress in our lives. 
   Too often we are running helter skelter, to and fro, with no direction.  As a result, many find life is not the primrose path and not the road to fulfillment and not one that is less stressful. 
Spinners are a quick fix. Family and Judaism are more of a permanent solution to achieve a true non stressful life. 
   The Rav, in an overview of life said, “Our Torah is a Derech Hashem, a Derech Hachayim, and a majestic style of living. The Torah way of life is a wide and well paved road lined with signs, arrows, and other symbols, pointing out each turn, curve and twist. Whoever wants to pay attention and travel straight to his destination will find a way. If one is capable of watching those signs and symbols, he will not get lost.” 
   A Torah oriented journey can lead to a stress and liberating way of life. 
These are times that we are to infuse our lives with the Spinners of Spirituality, elevating our souls to new heights, owning our own destiny.
שבת שלום ומבורך

Wednesday, May 3, 2017

POWER OF LOVE


The power of love and human interaction is overwhelmingly inspirational in our worldly existence. It takes warm hearts to move us to greater heights of humanity. 
I recall the story of the day a locomotive first came to a small Jewish town in Europe, and the Hasidim decided to show their Rebbe this miracle of modern civilization. As the Rebbe neared the station, he saw a long line of black cold, motionless cars, attached to each other. The engine in front was belching fire, sending smoke into the clouds. Suddenly, with an ear shattering roar, the engine started moving and the long line of cars moved with it. 
"Rebbe,Rebbe, what do you say to this remarkable sight?" The Rebbe pondered the phenomenon and then remarked in Yiddish "Zeht vie ein haysa ken mit shleypen azoy fil kalteh", look how one hot, fiery object can pull along so many cold ones. 
This is the fact of life when it comes to Yahadut. We have the power, when we unite as one people to accomplish much, especially with our love for each other, and in doing so, to encourage and to embrace others as we travel the road of Yiddishkeit and Torah together. 
This I sense is the main theme of this week's second Parsha, Kedoshim. 
To get the true message of achieving the ultimate Kedusha we need to hear well the opening words of the Sedrah. וידבר הי אל משה לאמר דבר אל כל עדת בני ישראל. Hashem spoke to Moshe saying, "Speak to the entire assembly of the Children of Israel."
The crucial words in this dialogue is עדת בני ישראל, the entire assembly. Herein we see that the true principle of Kedusha concerns all parts of the community and each person is called upon to work towards this ideal to the best of his means and abilities. As a Jewish People we must always act as one, כאיש אחד בלב אחד.Remember the words קול הי בכח, as Chazal explain, בכוחו של כל אחד ואחד, our future depends upon the Jewish People with one unifying voice. 
The presence of the entire assembly signifies that the ultimate goal of Kedusha, can only be achieved through the collective efforts of the whole nation. Understandably each individual can reach a wonderful degree of Holiness,but our Torah and all of the Mitzvot depends on the participation of the community. This is very evident as we realize the importance of the Kehillah, of the Tzibur,especially when we congregate together for Tefilah. Only as a Tzibur, a congregation, can we intone together all the דבר שבקדושה, for only when we are united as one can we truly reach the ultimate heights of Holines, for only then are we referred to as, עדת בני ישראל. 
However, let us always remember we cannot achieve the true אהבת הי, unless we first fulfill the dictum of ואהבת לרעך כמוך. That is why Rabbi Akiva said that this directive is, זה כלל גדול בתורה, this is the great rule in the Torah. 
This must be our guiding principle. Love of G-D, is very important, but without love of mankind we would truly be a miss as an עם קדוש. 
As we experience the counting of the days of Sefira, let us consider to count every Jew in a loving manner, embrace each other with open hands and open hearts and show the world what the true meaning of , קדושים תהיו, really signifies.  
שבת שלום ומבורך